The Harsh Social Impact of the Shallon Lester Drama


What is this whole drama really about? Gender? Psychological Abuse?

00:00 – What Shallon Lester did & her defenders
02:09 – Man vs Women? Gender War & Group Think
05:00 – How both Genders can Abuse.
06:00 – PUAs, Incels & Manosphere vs Shallon & “Female” Content
07:00 – Cancel Culture & Double Standards

09:10 – I’m not only defending Men
11:00 – Deflecting the argument. (Lemons vs Oranges)
13:15- The Divide between Male & Female
17:00 – “Stay in your lane” + Racism
19:26 – My Direct Experience with Manipulation

21:27 – Celebrity Gossip isn’t the Problem
23:00 – If a young girl takes Shallon’s Advice
26:47 – Imagine if your Son or Daughter met Shallon.
29:00 – Why her past action’s still matter
30:48 – My Experience with Bullies & Abuse.

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  1. OH GOD – I RAISED 2 BOYS and a DAUGHTER…AMAZING YOUNG ADULTS NOW.. I loved them all more than my next breath…and now….now I'm a little scared for them. But honestly, I think we all come here with different lessons to learn and that certain challenges show up for each of us based on what will teach us what our soul is yearning to learn. They may be perfect bait for an abuser, but if those arent thier lessons to learn, they'll never run into such people. If it IS what thier soul's lessons are, nothing could keep them from finding one after another.

  2. You are extremely fair minded and intelligent, with excellent and cohesive analyses. I don’t think that anyone that listens to you, thinks you are being biased. You are correct.
    And, you have a lovely heart.

  3. GOD…I DO LOOK AT THE WORLD IN BINARY TERMS…my generation, I'm sure and I HATE IT. Which is part of why I LOVE LEARNING from millenials…you guys have SOOOO MUCH TO TEACH THE WORLD AT LARGE. It may not seem like it but there are those of us out here listening and learning.

  4. And I haven't come across ANY MAN who has done something as … absurd and unhelpful as "evil week". Imo The Pick Up Artist STILL DOESN'T COME CLOSE. I''m not saying they don't exist, I'm just saying that he would be DESSIMATED, OVERNIGHT, GUARATEED. CASE IN POINT: LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENED TO AN INNOCENT MAN….Johnny Depp should have taught us all something already.

  5. I love what you’re doing and what you stand up for and stand for🙏you are such a genuine soul, your uniqueness is beautiful in itself, I love how passionate you are. I hope some day you find that person who loves you and respects you, you deserve it🙏tysm for speaking on this the way you have been. Manipulation and abuse is ugly! The people who do it are ugly, weak, with low self esteem, they’re losers! They are so weak that the only way for them to feel any sense of worth is by tricking, manipulating, lying, abusing and are proud of it, they get off on it which is imo sick! I can’t stand that evil person. I was in a few abusive, manipulative relationships as well before and I attempted suicide a couple times. Thank god I realized, I opened my eyes and I seen what was happening. I remember my mom had adopted a baby and I loved him like he was my own. Taking care of him for the time I did helped me heal. About a year later I gave it a try again after my sisters boyfriend introduced me to his cousin. Straight away I fell for him. I was with him a few months when I got in a really bad car accident. He took care of me. I was in a halo(fractured spine), shattered my jaw, had back injury. He did everything for me. I fell inlove with him. He could’ve just walked away at any time but he took the best care of me and was so gentle.We have had our ups and downs, but we worked thru them together. We’ve been together 14 years now. We have 2 boys 10&4 and life is good. We don’t have lots of money, we struggle that way but we have love❤️I thank god for our struggles because in a way I believe they molded us into the respectful, kind couple we are. Lol we clean house together. He does dishes, I’ll sweep the floors, he mops, he does laundry, I fold the clothes and put them away, we both have changed diapers, gave baths to the babies when they were babys. We do everything together and are equal. I believe he’s my soul mate and I tell him that. Our kids are so happy. No manipulation has ever came from either of us. You just don’t do that to people. Shallon is weak, she’s doing nothing good, she don’t belong having a platform. Start a petition to get her off youtube?

  6. I really hate that SHALLON LESTER is the way I found your channel, but so glad I did, still. Love where you are taking the channel and I'm excited to see where it goes as you learn and evolve, because your capacity is truly limitless and your voice can be extremely transformative if you stay true to yourself. Keep seeking understanding…it will continue to evolve over your lifetime….it never ends….and that is a great thing.

  7. I agree with everything that this YouTuber is saying because he explains his idea .I am saddened he was abused .I know this man is confident but sometimes confident people can feel sad or mad I don't what this YouTuber or any man or woman to be sad or mad .Please get better soon !

  8. So people really think men can’t be abused or treat unfairly 🤦🏽‍♀️ and more than 40% of domestic abuse victims are men . I bet most people thought that number would be lower

  9. You kinda lost me when you started the whole argument about innocent girls and boys who don't know anything about dating taking advice from Shallon.
    That's kind of simplistic.
    However I do agree somewhat because ones opinions and view of life will be somewhat shaped by the people you surround yourself with. And Shallon perpetuates toxic behaviour both blatantly and subconciously through her manners.
    She could very well be A PART of pushing boundaries for what is deemed ok and not ok.

  10. She said that she was rejected for a school dance and since she is a “witch” she put a curse on him. In the video she said cancer twice and that their family member committed suicide.

  11. Omg I needed to hear this. My boyfriend is filipino. And I despice the filipino president. Everytime i comment on filipino politics he is always like u dont know cuz ur not filipino. Sure he's experience matters, but he I'm seeing it so not biased and I'm seeing the things for what ther are! Objectivity is important as well

  12. Pierre you think like me. You have my full support. I stand to break double standards on all sides. We should not to be pro-female or pro-male. We need to be pro-human. That's all. I love your videos and the way you think. Keep it up man.

  13. I used to watch Shallon Lester, my gut and intuition was saying something wasn't right! However .. She was soon exposed and I'm so glad I've stumbled across your videos. You talk so much sense and speak truth. We should all be appreciative of one another in this world, have compassion and also a sense of Gratitude and a level of respect for ourselves and others! #Bekind!
    Sending healing and love!

    Keep being you and helping others through their awakening! 🦋🌈🌍🙌🙌🙌♥️♥️

  14. Yes, sadly people are missing the point. ABUSE IS ABUSE, no matter the persons sexual orientation or gender, & should never be tolerated under any circumstances! So many good points Pierre! 🙌🏻 As a woman, I have been abused by men, but I have also dated men who have been abused by women, & even women who have been abused by other women. Double standards definitely do exist, & as a former “feminist”, I now call myself a “humanist” for this reason. I believe we all need to start leaving gender out of these conversations. I also believe the only way we should bring race into conversations, is if we are specifically talking about one’s experiences with it (like yours), or to bring awareness regarding a community who is suffering from it. Not all Men are F*#k Boi’s, & they are not all abusive, but Shallon is promoting both of these ideas. We do need to educate our young girls & boys to be more sensitive & strong at the same time, as opposed to one or the other. If I had been educated about abuse at a young age, it would’ve helped me avoid becoming a victim to my first boyfriend who did unspeakable things to me. From what I have seen of Shallon, she is not only a predator, but an abuser of people she considers to be week. She is a cancer spreading across YouTube, & I commend you for calling her out, & standing your ground! Your dreams & goals of a brighter & better future is part of why you came here to this planet, & I know you will
    succeed in your mission. Keep on dreamin! Love you! 💞🚻✨


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